What Women Find Attractive in Men
Surprise guys! Women are people too and have individual tastes and preferences…just like men. Having said that, there are a few general guidelines that will help you appeal to most women. Pay attention to these points, and then the rest is up to you.
Okay, the obvious one-good looks are nice. Really handsome men get attention and are desirable. But if this is the whole story, how do you explain all the average and less than average guys who end up hooked up, in relationships with and happily married to beautiful women? Chances are that the not-so-handsome guys you know who are successful with women have one or more of the other important qualities listed below.
Carries himself with confidence-women like a man who is comfortable in his own skin. Confidence is not limited to the “alpha male” swagger. Women want a man with social skills; a guy who knows when to talk and when to listen and how to laugh. Relaxed body language and good eye contact are key to giving off a confident vibe. Eye contact guys, with a smile, not glaring and staring
He has healthy relationships-this means normal friendships and a respectful connection with his family. Women love a man who loves and respects his family. They shy away from a man who can’t tie his shoes without asking his mommy. The same goes for your guy friends, it’s great that you know how to hangout and have a good time. It’s a creepy turn-off if you absorb all the opinions of your wolf pack of single loser friends.
An honest man with integrity ends up with quality women in his life. In today’s world of social media and relaxed cultural customs there is no such thing as a secret. Spare yourself the stress of keeping your lies straight and the embarrassment of getting caught-tell the truth. If you want women who don’t play games, will treat you well and are generally high quality women then you need to display the same qualities. It’s simple law of attraction stuff.
He has a plan for his life-and he will make room for her. You don’t have to be rich and famous to attract great women, however you need to know where you’re going in life. Men need to at least think about what they want to be when they “grow up”. It’s okay if you aren’t at the pinnacle of your career or ready to get married today-but at least have a plan for someday. Once you decide you want to seriously pursue a woman make sure she knows how she fits into your plan.
Bottom line guys, would you want to date someone like you?
Karen travels all over the country to teach workshops to new business owners and leaders as well as provide individual coaching for business and life issues. Her workbook for couples in business is available at http://www.sexisgoodforbusiness.com You can reach Karen at http://www.karensouthallwatts.com